Does My Boyfriend Still Love Me/

Does my Boyfriend Really Love Me?
He always makes it a point to communicate with you. If your boyfriend loves to talk to you and listens to your joys and sorrows, he sure is taking a deep interest in you. True love is not just about hanging out at coffee shops, it’s about being knowing and communicating with each other.

He goes out of his way to make you happy. For example, you may love to watch movies and he may be more of a sports freak. If he gets you the backseat tickets for a Saturday night simply because you wanted to watch the latest release, you can be rest assured he honestly loves you! When your boyfriend makes a special effort to spend more time with you or wants to get to know you better by doing things you love, it’s definitely a sign of true love!

His priorities revolve around you. Does he make it a point to put other things on the backseat? Does he involve you in his decisions always? If you are his priority, chances are he will always hold you as the most important factor in life. Looking forward to spending weekends together or spending time with you rather than going in for a booze party would only show he appreciates time spent with you. If he has his priorities right in life, you will figure in many of his plans!

He takes you home to meet his family. A boyfriend who intends to be more than just a boyfriend would make it a point to introduce you to people who matter the most to him in life, be it family or friends. If your boyfriend makes a special effort to help you establish a relation with his near and dear ones, then you would definitely know it is heading in the right direction.

He remembers all special and important days. It could be anything, your birthday or an anniversary! If he remembers days that hold importance for you, then girl! You have him hooked already! A man would probably need to make a special effort to keep important dates in mind and you can be tension-free if he is a making an effort in this direction!
He gives you the freedom to express and be yourself. If your boyfriend makes it a point to avoid dominating you and lets you be your natural self, then there can be no two ways to the way he feels. He loves you for what you are and does not wish to change a thing about you! Freedom of expression and being the true ‘you’ is very much required to have a relationship that’s for keeps!
These are a few signs to know if your boyfriend really does love you. Always follow your heart to know what his feelings hold for you!

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Signs Of Flirting

Though most signs of cupid’s arrows are common to both the genders, there are some which are special to each one of them.
Common Signs:
If your name appears frequently in his/her conversation, you know cupid is working overtime.
If the teeth are flashing a lot or lips are drawn in a happy line in your presence (Smiling!).
You haven’t counted what you like and what you don’t like, but the cupid-stricken is out to take an inventory of your interests.
Trying to very close? Read the sign. Sure sign of flirting.
Mostly leans towards you while sitting or standing? She/he is out to get you!
Okay.  So how do women differ from men in their flirting gestures? Women are more subtle when sending out signals. If your antenna is powerful and your grey cells work overtime in matters of the heart, you will catch these in a jiffy! Else, come back and read this.
By far the most interesting sign of flirting is when someone tries to touch your knees or arms. In most cases, it might seem unintended or not purposeful; however, this one sign can be construed as one of the sure signs. But beware! Watch out for a couple of more signs before actually responding to it.

Signals That A Guy Likes You:
1. The testosterone gesture (a new invention!):  If he flexes and swaggers his muscles, lo and behold! The very basic sign that a man could give; this is a show of masculinity. Most in the animal kingdom do it, may it be peacock spreading his plume or the little bird engaging in dance to attract his partner, only they don’t flex muscles, but do show their assets off by making a display of it.

2. First he tries to catch your eyes.  Then holds your glance then looks away only to come back again.  He sure wants to know you better and is sending out clues that he likes you.  He may not hold your eyes, but the look going away and coming back speaks volumes of a thundering heart wanting to know you better and what better ways to tell a guy likes you.

3. The normally thunderous man suddenly lowers his voice, wants to know your likes and dislikes, engages you in long talks about right and wrong, is overly protective of your future – your education and career have a greater meaning for him.

4. He is fondling a cigarette or chain.  Hmm… he wants to be more intimate.  Run, if you fear getting drowned in his masculinity. These are certain clues that he likes you.

5. He touches you gently or softly to drive home that he is friendly and this one of the surer ways to tell a guy likes you.

6. If his constantly goes to his hair, patting it into place, he wants to look good for you. The same goes if he smoothens his dress.

How To Tell If A Girl Likes You:
1. Her glances are trained on you when you are not watching her. Each time you see her, she moves her eyes away it gives you a feeling she had been watching you all the while.

2. If the smile is genuine with a sparkle of the teeth and she has a glint in her eye, you know her smile is not forced.  She is enjoying your happiness.  This is the best way you are on the way!

3. For her all roads lead to Rome through you.  She is going out of the way to make sure you notice her.  She slightly raises her voice when you are crossing the group she is in or makes slight adjustments to her hair, skirt etc when you are glancing her way.

4. She takes off her shoes or lets her shoe hang off the toes; takes her ear ring off, these are suggestive of “undressing.” She wants to be intimate. However, be careful to look for other signs, too.

5. She initiates the talk. She could start from anywhere but this is a sure sign she is interested in you.  You tell her your name and she repeats it for you.  She pulls your ear close to hers to tell you a secret.  She is giving a whiff of her perfume, inviting a response from you.

6. Your jokes may not bring the whole house down with laughter but your jokes, sure has her holding her ribs.  If she responds with exclamations for all your achievements, small or big, the green signal is on.

7. Does she ask you about movies, dance, or dinner better book the tickets for the show, she is going to ask you out on date soon enough!

8. If she touches you anywhere, overtly or covertly, more than a few times during the evening, you are sure she wants to know you better…go ahead, your evening is set.

*A word of caution, though, you can be certain that these obvious signs of flirting are only indicative.  In the case of women, you will do well not to jump to conclusions looking at one or two signs.  It is very easy to misinterpret friendly gestures and signs of flirting, especially in the case of women.
*Only follow your heart, if you are sure you have read the signs properly. You could end up at the wrong end of the stick for sexual harassment if you misread the signs.
*Girls you might feel men are always meant to run after you.  There are those of the male species who like girls running after them. Reading a man is much easier than reading woman.  However men like their women to be coy, shy, and not very overt in showing her interest.  You have to tread a very safe line.

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Signs of Being in Love
1. Love cannot be learnt or taught. Sometimes, you are not even aware when it happens. Falling in love with someone is an exciting, wonderful experience. It may also be bit confusing, if you are unfamiliar with this experience. You don’t understand what is happening with you. If you know the signs of being in love, it will help relieve your confusion and understand your inner feelings.When you are in love with someone, you remember him/her all the time. You go on thinking about that person and the happy moments spent together. You are not even able to concentrate on your work.

2. When you are in love, everything in daily life reminds you of him/her. When you see anything or do anything, you tend to recall the related memories of the moments that you spent with him/her.

3. If you concern a lot about someone, then it indicates that you are in love. You always care about his/her safety and happiness. You experience an overwhelming urge that he/she should be happy and comfortable and should not be troubled by anything. It becomes your number one priority. You always try to protect that person.

4. When you start loving someone, you become more cautious about your appearance. You naturally wish that you should look more attractive to him. You become attentive about your clothes and hairstyle, so that you would get an appreciation from him/her. You look more attractive and cheerful and it’s because of your romantic mood. You also try to impress him/her by updating your knowledge about the current issues.
When you love someone, you feel that no person is more attractive than the individual you love. You even don’t notice the presence of other people. Your whole attention is concentrated on that individual only.

5. Now you deny spending much time with your friends. You want to spend more time with him/her. You want to be alone and think more about your special person. Even though you are surrounded by your friends, you will find yourself constantly thinking about being with someone special.

6. When you find someone interesting, you wish to know more about him/her. You want to know about his interests, likes and dislikes and career. You are eager to understand every detail of his/her life. You also try to do the things that he/she likes.

7. There was a time, when you were cautious about time or spending the money. But when you are with someone special, you even don’t think about time or how much money you spend to buy a gift for him/her.
Loyalty is another name for love. You want to be loyal to him/her and expect the same from that person. He/she becomes the only concerned person for you.

8. When you love someone, you tend to think about his/her expectations. You think about his/her views and needs and learn to compromise.

9. You share some beautiful moments with him/her. You feel happy and excited when you plan about going to a party or picnics, attending a ceremony together. You start discussing about the future plans.

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5 Keys to a Great Relationship
It’s a little strange, but so often we park in the wrong place. Staying to long where we know things aren’t a good fit. None of us is looking for perfection but staying on top of what you want is important.
At the outset it’s important to find someone you have a good time with, someone that shares your hopes and dreams and most importantly has fun in the ways you like to have fun. Isn’t that really what its all about? Even in the worst of times, you should still be able to smile and feel great with you’re closest friend?
It’s ok to disagree, but finding someone that makes that easy is key.

This is quite possibly the most important.  To have a relationship that will really stand the test you have to have a way to maintain it. People will always make mistakes, and there must be a place to come to resolve those. Having a partner and a spirit in yourself that can truly forgive these mistakes is the best way to keep honesty in the relationship.
Its when the communication breaks down and people are unwilling to forgive that fear and anger sets in and we start looking to place our intimacies elsewhere.
It may be a sacrifice, but next time you see an opportunity to be angry, try forgiving rather than building on the anger. It’s within us all to make mistakes, and it everyone’s job to be able to overcome them.

Being in a great relationship, means knowing you are sharing your lives and that means sometime your partner’s needs will come before your own.
It can’t be a battle. It’s not fair or healthy to keep track of who’s done more for whom. Love at its core is caring more for that other person’s well being than your own.
The hope is that when two people can do this in balance the relationship is the true beneficiary. After all if you’re having fun with your partner, doesn’t that matter most?

There are many relationships that don’t survive because people haven’t learned to really communicate. This is the most common way to break down.
The first part of communication is usually not what people expect. Before even looking outward, look inward! Take a moment before you speak and really try and understand what ii is you want the other person to know.
Put everything on the line, you’re mistakes, and fears, as a mantra I think its fair to say that you’re unabridged honesty should do no harm. The other conditions of a good relationship, like forgiveness and trust will deal with the problems once there out there but no one can deal with them until they have been said.
Make time for sharing with your partner each day. Don’t let weeks go by where nothing is said, just have no  motive, simply that you want to communicate honestly.

The best part of being in healthy relationship is making plans for your time both today and on down the road.
There’s so much innocent fun flirtation in making little plans for dates or for the weekend. Don’t hide from it. Enjoy it!
It’s better still to make some plans for the summer or further off. Talking about these dreams can be a great way to get to better know your partner, and will make today’s work more bearable.
The truth is; there are things you can do to make your relationship better. It will always be a work in progress towards not only your partners health, but your own.
You’ve stepped off on this adventure of life together, bounding over problems and joys with hands held tightly hoping you make it to the other side intact. These five things will help you get there.
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Loves; Winnie(: